Okay Guys, Here's What You Need to Know About How to Talk to Girls

I think that if Mark had a clue about how to talk to girls, he would not be so lonely, constantly looking for a relationship.  One thing that bothers many women about his personality is his tendency to talk about money. He always talks about how much things cost, including the gifts that he buys for his girlfriends. This is a red flag to many women that he is preoccupied with money.

Any man who knows how to talk to girls doesn't tell them that the flowers he just bought were an outrageous sixty dollars. This just makes the woman feel weird about accepting the gift. It also leaves her feeling like he is expecting something in return, even if he is not.

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Friends and girlfriends all know that Mark is successful in business, but the girls tell me that they get sick and tired of hearing about how every one at his job either admires him or is insanely jealous of him. If Mark knew how to talk to girls, he would understand that he just sounds conceited and paranoid.

Unfortunately, Mark also likes to discuss other women’s flaws. A man who knows how to talk to girls is aware that women tend to be self-conscious about their looks. If he is picking out flaws in other women, he is most likely going to pick out flaws in his relationships, especially as the years go by.

Probably the worst thing that Mark does is talk about all of his past relationships.  Rather than having to listen to how bad his previous dates were, I think Mark's girlfriends would much rather talk about the present.

In all of this, there's a trend.  Mark talks so much about himself that he does not even get to know much about his date.  Girls like to listen, but they also like to be listened to.  Some of Mark's ex-girlfriends have told me that they think he is too stuck on himself to be able to have a good relationship.  This is sad.

A man who knows how to talk to girls has an appreciation for females and loves their flaws as well as their assets. He concentrates on making the girl laugh and having a good time.  Discussions about finances and career can always come later. 

Mark is a great guy; he just needs to learn how to talk to girls in a way that makes them understand just how wonderful he really is.

"How to Talk to Girls" contributed by Kenny Smith