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5 Essential Dating Tips - Continuation of Tip #4, Have Confidence!
Just Do It! If you're looking for a date, the obvious -- but sometimes hardest step -- is just to start dating. If
someone has asked you out, accept. If not, take charge of your life and ask someone out yourself who you
like. Just do it, and accept the fact that some people will say no. Many will also say yes.
Begin to make conversation with the nice people you meet along the way. Become sociable and look good at every
opportunity. Now start to be selective about what kind of people you really like. The more people who are
interested in you, the higher your confidence levels.
Avoid Negative People and Situations. To build your confidence for dating or any other reason, stay away from
people who bring you down with their constant negative talk or criticism.. Whether a friend or a potential date, you
deserve better. Walk away from the negative people and situations -- you'll see big changes in your life and your self
esteem!

Essential Dating Tip #5 - Cultivate Some Romance!
What woman doesn’t want to be treated to a little romance every once in a while? Many women will agree that romance is
all about the details. Small gestures really do make a normal night out into something romantic. Here are
some tips to get you on the right track:
Thoughtfulness. The key to being romantic is thoughtfulness. Learn that mood, location, situation and ambience can
heighten romance. Communicate with your partner on every level and anticipate his or her desires and
needs.
The Little Stuff Adds Up. Try doing little things to get right at your partner’s soft spot. Phone just to say
hello, I love you and give your partner a nice surprise. Without overwhelming your partner with too much, send them notes and
small cards telling them you are thinking of them. Be spontaneous and do little deeds that show you care.
Bring home take out from his or her favorite restaurant or take them to their favorite ice cream shop. Flowers are
always a nice touch at any time of year. Remember birthdays, anniversaries and landmark days such as the day your first met or
first kissed, and plan something such as a return to the first date location. Listen to clues that your partner might drop,
such as his or her favorite book, movie, etc., and surprise them with little gifts.
Physical Contact. Learn how to hug, cuddle and make physical contact. Dance together when the occasion
arises. Hold hands and do anything to make your partner feel close to you.
Romantic Dinners. In terms of dates, learn how to cook your partner’s favorite dish. Plan a surprise candlelit
dinner followed by a romantic movie. Take your partner on a picnic to the park or beach and prepare in advance without
involving them. This initiative is very romantic.
~~~ Good luck with your dating! ~~~
"5 Essential Dating Tips" contributed by Nancy Slovak
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